Annual Reflections

As I step into a new year, I reflect on my chosen values and what truly matters to me as a partner, a parent, a daughter, sibling and friend. As I envision my values for 2024, there are a few key elements that stand out: authenticity, ease, adventure, and deservedness.

This holiday has been stressful (as it is every year for me.) Particularly because I was stricken with the flu. Literally knocked off my a#% for 8 days. I tried to fight it. Tried to pretend that I was okay, but I was far from it. I couldn’t get out of my own way. I didn’t really decorate. Only bought two gifts prior to getting sick and then zippo after that. Needless to say, I wasn’t in the spirit because we weren’t all together this holiday. I’ve been fighting off the blues.  I didn’t realize this until this Christmas being sick but, I dread Christmas!  A lot comes up for me and I’ve made an executive decision as the CEO of my life to work with a therapist this year so I can physically, mentally and financially gear up for Christmas 2024! 

I want to get excited about the holidays instead of dreading them. I want to create new and fun traditions for my family. I decided to limit social media to once a week. Some people stop drinking?  I’m cutting back on my social media habit. I realize how much of an impact it has on my mental well-being. So, moving into 2024,  I want to connect with people via zoom or in person. I want to limit my texting and engage in more active conversations. 

I’ve made a commitment to working with a therapist and business coach twice a month to do the work that is needed to get the results I’m looking for.   I plan on making dedicated monthly blogs that you can find on The Haven Yoga’s website instead of posting on social media. 

These past few days have really put things in perspective for me, and lit a fire under me. It’s time to get healthy - physically, mentally, soulfully, CONSISTENTLY!!!   It’s time to lean into four very important values I have designated as my priorities moving into 2024. 

AUTHENTICITY is a value that I hold dear. In a world that often encourages us to conform or put on masks, I want to prioritize being true to myself and embracing my uniqueness. I believe that by staying authentic, I can cultivate deeper connections, foster genuine relationships, and create a life that aligns with my true desires.

EASE is another value that I want to embrace in 2024. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, filled with constant hustle and bustle. However, I believe that by seeking simplicity and finding balance, we can create a sense of ease in our daily lives. This means prioritizing self-care, setting boundaries, and learning to say no when necessary. By doing so, I hope to create a space where peace and tranquility can thrive.

ADVENTURE is a value that fuels my spirit. I want to embrace the unknown, step out of my comfort zone, and explore new horizons. Whether it's traveling to new destinations, trying new hobbies, or taking on exciting challenges, I want to infuse my life with a sense of adventure. By doing so, I believe I can expand my horizons, learn valuable lessons, and create unforgettable memories.

Lastly, DESERVEDNESS is a value that I want to emphasize in 2024. It's easy to fall into the trap of feeling unworthy or undeserving of the good things that come our way. However, I firmly believe that we all deserve happiness, success, and fulfillment. By recognizing my own worth and embracing a mindset of abundance, I hope to attract positive experiences and opportunities into my life.

As I embark on this journey towards 2024, I am committed to living a life that embodies authenticity, ease, adventure, and deservedness. These values will guide my decisions, shape my experiences, and help me create a life that is true to who I am. I invite you to reflect on your own values and join me in embracing these principles as we navigate the exciting path ahead. 

Here's to a year filled with growth, joy, and the fulfillment of our deepest desires!

Namaste,

Pam

Preparing for the New Year at The Haven

As we prepare to step into the new year, I wanted to take a moment to reflect. Yegge, my boyfriend dreads this time of year because it means it’s time to be mindful, set intentions, lean into refining existing core values or identify new values for the upcoming year.  For me, I’ll continue to focus on family, authenticity, and adventure,  and will be adding “health” to my list.  

As I mentioned last month, I began an intuitive eating journey with the incredible Andrea Travis. It has been a transformative experience, teaching me the value of embracing the process rather than seeking quick fixes.

Over the past few months, I have had the privilege of working closely with Andrea. Through her guidance, I have learned to listen to my body's cues, honor my hunger and fullness, and let go of restrictive dieting patterns. Andrea's compassionate approach has empowered me to make peace with food and my body, fostering a healthier relationship with both.

One of the most valuable lessons I have learned is the importance of patience and perseverance. Intuitive eating is not a linear journey, but rather a process of self-discovery and growth. It requires us to let go of societal pressures and embrace our unique needs and desires. By focusing on the process, rather than fixating on immediate results, I am beginning to truly experience the freedom and joy that intuitive eating offers.

As we embark on this new year, I am excited to share two upcoming programs that will further enhance our well-being and self-care practices. In January, we will be embarking on a 30-day team yoga, meditation and nutrition challenge. This challenge will not only strengthen our bodies but also nurture our minds and spirits. Together, we will cultivate a sense of inner peace and mindfulness, setting the tone for a fulfilling year ahead.

Following the yoga and meditation challenge, in February, we will be diving into the "Make Peace with Your Plate" program. Led by Andrea Travis herself, this program will provide us with invaluable tools and insights to heal our relationship with food and our bodies. Through a series of workshops, discussions, and personalized guidance, we will learn to nourish ourselves from a place of self-love and acceptance.

I will be sending out more information about these offerings in the next few days. As we embark on these transformative programs, let us remember that the journey is just as important as the destination. Let's embrace the process, celebrate our progress, and support one another along the way. Together, we can create a community rooted in self-care, compassion, and intuitive living.

My hope for you this coming new year, is that it’s filled with self-discovery, growth, and the courage to embrace the process. Trust in your intuition, honor your body, and let go of the need for quick fixes. Remember, true transformation comes from within!

Namaste, 

Pam