United We Must Stand to Understand

 

There’s a lot of that going on in the world, and it seems like there are many more who “listen to reply” these days.

I am certainly guilty as charged on many accounts. I am a natural born “know it all” and “fixer”. 

Actually, I’ll cut through the bullsh#%. My name is Pam, and I’m a recovering control freak. 

“Letting go” is something I have to make a conscious effort towards every day with my partner, my children, my co-workers, clients, strangers, etc. 

I became increasingly aware of this shortcoming as I was becoming certified as a life coach, coupled with this election year, and impacted even more with the effects of a pandemic. 

Our egos can exhaust us. 

They can make too much noise. 

Usually so much noise, preventing us from realizing that the answers are within each and every one of us. 

So every day, I consciously kick my ego to the curb, embrace my divine feminine, and simultaneously let go of the things I can’t control. I don’t always have to be right. And I can agree to disagree with others. But I must be respectful and kind. 

As I have been exercising all that I’ve learned from Certified Life Coach Institute Alumni & Staff Group, Ray Carmen and Daniel Olexa CTht-Pcc, I consciously force my ego to dissipate so I can effectively hold space for others in their time of need.  

Instead of listening to reply,

Listen to understand,

And surround yourself with a special group of people who do the same.

This can be accomplished regardless of who you vote for on November 3rd. 

I can assure you,

If we listen to understand, 

We will feel peace. 

If we all listen to understand,

We will feel unity. 

If we all listen to respectfully understand,

We will be one again. 

God Bless America!