For awhile, I didn’t know who I was nor what my purpose is in this life. I didn’t do what I loved nor loved what I did. I was a puppet on a string trying to conform to societal expectations.
My dad would tell me “either humble yourself or life will do it for you”. I never quite knew what that meant until I was faced with some pretty intense situations and experiences. Each of which, gradually peeled a layer away forcing me to examine and consider the rocky road to my authentic self. It wasn’t comfortable nor easy but I learned that I had a choice to contract or expand. I gratefully chose the latter.
I face many ugly truths about myself, my life and my relationships each day to stay grounded in the process. I shed many people who were my closest friends, turned inward and took years to reflect on where my responsibilities lay in everything I have done and do. I was sad and discouraged about my losses, but letting go of certain people, places and things made room for closer connections with others seeking the same.
I forgave myself and others. I’ve also been forgiven allowing me to connect and accept myself exactly as I was and as I am in this moment.
I practice truth, love, kindness, silence and non-judgement and do more each day to sink into my values. I am a work in progress. I am not perfect, nor do I strive for perfection. I do what I can in each moment to lean into my goals toward authenticity so I can give everyone I meet, the best version of myself.
For so long, I cared more about belonging than I did about finding out about who I really am and what I have to offer. I worried how I looked and what I had as opposed to what I have to give.
Today, I spend more time on myself so I don’t have time to criticize others. I am anchored into my values and boundaries, and my desire for personal growth and abundance is stronger than my desire to belong. I’ve come a long way. I continue to peel away the layers. I feel lighter.
I know my purpose, and I am passionate about going on this journey with others who are open to gain awareness, and do the work necessary to live their best lives ever. Are you? If so, find it at The Haven Yoga & Spiritual Sanctuary.
